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Will the sudden proposal succeed? Tips and tricks for success

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“I want to propose soon, but is it possible to propose suddenly?”
“I’m worried about suddenly proposing and failing”

To marry a woman you are dating, you need to propose.
However, many people may be worried about whether or not the other person will say “yes” even if they suddenly propose.
Therefore, in this article, we will introduce whether a sudden proposal will be appreciated by women, tips to make it successful, and the recommended timing for a proposal.
If you are thinking of proposing, please refer to it.

1 Do you have a sudden proposal?
2 Disadvantages of suddenly proposing
- 2.1 It would look like a compromised proposal
- 2.2 It makes me feel uneasy
3 How to make a sudden proposal successful
4 Best time to propose
5 Let’s prepare a present even for a sudden proposal
- 5.1 Diamond is also recommended.
6 Summary
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Do you have a sudden proposal?

Proposals are a dream come true for women.
Among them, sudden proposals called surprise proposals are often appreciated by women.

Especially if you have talked about marriage and children with the other person, it will be easy to propose successfully even if it is sudden.
Even if you haven’t had a chance to discuss marriage or your future life, if the other person has the will to marry, it should be successful.
Why don’t you have the courage to propose instead of hesitating just because it’s sudden?

Disadvantages of suddenly proposing

However, there is a risk that suddenly proposing to her will make her feel uneasy.
Figure out what the disadvantages are and make it a proposal that the other party will be happy with.

It would look like a compromised proposal

If the proposal conveys the atmosphere that you are in a hurry to get married or the atmosphere that you are going to tell him for the time being, you may think that you are compromising the proposal.
Although the proposal is one of the paths to marriage, many women value the atmosphere of the proposal.
If you go to the trouble of proposing, be aware of the situation and make it a memorable one.

It makes me feel uneasy

If she proposes too suddenly, she may feel uneasy about whether she is really serious about the proposal.
Also, there are a certain number of women who say, “I wanted to think about marriage together more in advance, considering her work and private life.”
In order not to make the other person feel uneasy with the proposal, it is important to tell them that you do not want to get married for nori.

How to make a sudden proposal successful

So what should you do to make your proposal a success?
Here are four points.

Research her thoughts

Before you suddenly propose, first research how she thinks about her future life, such as whether she wants to get married, whether she wants to have children, whether she wants to continue working.
If you have different ideas about marriage, it will be difficult to make a successful proposal.
You could try to have a casual conversation with her about the future, or talk to her friends about it.
If the other person wants to get married, the success rate of the proposal should also increase.

Convey one’s sincere feelings

If it’s a sudden proposal, it’s important to tell the other person that it’s a serious proposal.
Even if it’s embarrassing, it’s a good idea to tell the proposal directly.
If you do it in a roundabout way or leave it up to the other person, you may think that you are jokingly proposing.
In addition, the serious atmosphere is conveyed not only by words, but also by clothes.
Why don’t you be conscious of clothes that are a little prettier than usual?

Choose a proposal location

Even if you are going to propose out of the blue, you can still research and bring them to the right place to propose.
Even if the place is different from usual, you can create a special feeling, so try to propose in a special place as much as possible.
The usual places are hotels and restaurants, but if you can’t get a reservation because of a sudden proposal, your home or a park is also a good option.
Especially at home, you can make a special proposal by making a feast or decorating the room.
Other activities include going for a drive to a place with a beautiful night view or going to the beach.

Think of words for proposal

The words you choose are important to convey the seriousness of your proposal.
Rather than saying things like, “Is it okay to get married soon?”
It may also be a good idea to reflect on the events leading up to the proposal so that the other person knows how serious you are about proposing.

Best time to propose

If you had to choose the right time to propose instead of suddenly, when would it be?
Here are four recommended timings for a proposal.

When work stabilizes

When both of you are stable at work, it will be easier to think positively about marriage.
On the other hand, if one of you is considering changing jobs or has just changed jobs, you may not get a good answer right away because you are more focused on work than marriage.
Also, if your income and savings are not stable, you may be in a situation where you can’t get married even if you want to get married.
First of all, it is a good idea to understand the situation that the two of you are in now, and then reconsider whether it is the right time to get married.

When people started getting married

When people around you start getting married, she will start thinking about marriage, so it’s a good time to propose.
Especially around 24-25 years old, 28-29 years old, and 34-35 years old is said to be a marriage rush.
Why don’t you take a look at these ages and propose?
However, be sure to tell your partner about your feelings and reasons for wanting to get married so that they don’t think that you decided the timing of your marriage according to those around you.

Timing of milestones and anniversaries

25 years old, 30 years old, etc. The timing when the other person reaches a milestone age, or the anniversary of the two is also suitable for the timing of the proposal.
If you propose at the same time as your birthday or anniversary, you can make arrangements for a surprise proposal because you can pretend that you are preparing for these celebrations.

The timing of nothing

Proposing on an ordinary day is also a good way to create a new anniversary.
However, if you are going to propose suddenly at the timing of nothing, you should think carefully about the presentation of the proposal.
Let’s make the proposal memorable by sticking to the location, words, clothes, etc. as much as possible.

Let’s prepare a present even for a sudden proposal

Even if you suddenly propose, you should prepare a present.
A gift will make your proposal even more special and will make your partner even more happy.

Typical gifts for proposals are rings and flowers.
If it is a bouquet, we recommend a bouquet of red roses with the flower language of “Please marry me.”
Think of other gifts that she would love.

Diamond is also recommended.

If you’re proposing out of the blue, you may be worried that you can’t give her a ring because you don’t know her finger size.
In such a case, it is recommended to gift only diamonds.
After giving only the diamond, the couple can take it to the shop and make it into a ring that both of them are satisfied with.

Summary

For a sudden proposal, it is important to be able to convey the seriousness of the proposal, not just a sudden idea.
Let’s make your proposal a memorable one by paying attention to not only your words but also the place, clothes, gifts, etc. as much as possible.

If you are worried about preparing for a proposal, it is recommended to consult a professional once.
At How to Propose, our concierge will assist you with your proposal.
Please contact us by all means once.