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Who do you consult for proposals? Introducing consultation destinations and recommended proposal plans

“I want to talk to someone about the content of my proposal.”
“I want to refer to other people’s proposal methods”

There are probably many people who want to consult with someone about the proposal, such as when to propose, how to convey it, and how to choose a gift.
Therefore, in this article, I will introduce who I often consult about proposals, and what the specific consultation content is.
We will also introduce recommended proposal plans directly from professionals, so please refer to them.

 

Who do you consult for a proposal?

Who should be consulted about the proposal?
In general, people to consult with include male friends, female friends, company bosses, and family members.
Below are some suggestions on what to discuss, depending on who you are consulting with.

Male Friend

It seems that many people choose a trusted male friend as a point of contact because it is easier for them to confide in their worries about the proposal.
If your friend has already proposed, you can listen to specific experiences and use them as a reference.
If it’s between men, it’s easier to hear frank opinions, and you can change the proposal to something better.

Female Friend

It’s a big advantage to get advice from a female perspective from a female friend.
Talk about your proposed proposal and ask what you think and how you can make him even happier.
If she’s a good friend of hers, she might be able to come up with a proposal plan that fits her tastes.
However, you must be careful not to let her friends know that you are planning to propose to her.

Company Boss

It is also a good idea to consult with your company’s boss while also reporting that you will get married in the future.
If your boss sees you every day at work, it should be easy to talk to him at times such as chats and drinking parties.
Also, if your boss is married, you might be able to ask them about their experiences.
In addition, some companies offer vacations and congratulatory money for marriage, and you can ask your boss about such a company’s system.

Family

It may seem a little embarrassing to ask your family about the proposal.
However, if you consider notifying the family of the marriage after the proposal, there is an advantage that it is easier for her to accept her as part of her family by consulting with her first.
Also, as a senior who is actually living a married life, her parents will give you accurate advice.

About 60% actually consulted

However, in the first place, is it something that someone should consult about a proposal?
In an interview with MERIA ROOM MEN a person who proposed (will), about 60% answered that they consulted (will).
It seems that there are many people who consult because they want to refer to their experiences and want to hear the opinions of women.

On the other hand, there are also opinions such as, “I wanted to propose as a surprise, so I couldn’t talk about it,” and “I’m too embarrassed to talk about it because the proposal might fail.”

You should be able to make your proposal even more wonderful by thinking about what your ideal proposal is, and if you think you can, talk to someone about it.

Consult with a proposal professional

Even if you want to talk to someone about a proposal, there may be some people who find it difficult to talk to someone close to them.
For such people, it is recommended to consult with a proposal professional.

Do you know the profession of proposal planner or proposal concierge?
In these professions, the job is to plan the proposal and actually support the proposal.
I’m a professional who has seen many proposals so far, so I can get full-fledged proposal advice.

How to propose has supported more than 60,000 proposals so far, and has experienced planners.
If you would like to discuss a proposal, please feel free to contact us.

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What you can ask a professional

However, there may be some people who think that it is difficult to consult with a professional partner.
Therefore, we will introduce what you can specifically consult and request from a professional.

First of all, we will finish the contents of the proposal from the image to the concrete one.
From the image and worries, you can plan the best plan for both of you together.
In addition, if you are a professional, you can choose the place where you will actually propose and make reservations on your behalf.
Even busy people can prepare for the proposal.

Proposal plans recommended by professionals

Here, we will introduce a proposal plan recommended by a proposal professional.
Please use this as a reference for your proposal.

Restaurant

Restaurants are often the place of choice for proposals.
By having a meeting with the staff in advance, you can ask them to help you with your proposal, such as having them bring you a present or take a picture.
A common flow of proposals is to ask for a course meal, first enjoy the meal together, and then have the bride bring a ring or a bouquet of flowers along with dessert, and propose there.

Chapel

 
If you want to make a more formal proposal, it is recommended to propose at the chapel where the wedding actually takes place.
The chapel with stained glass and virgin road has a sacred atmosphere and is perfect for a proposal.
In a common chapel proposal, the staff escorts the other woman to the chapel, while the man prepares and prepares for the proposal.
It may be combined with other plans, such as going to a restaurant before or after.

Planetarium

If you propose under the fantastic starry sky, it will definitely become a memory for both of you.
A planetarium is recommended for a proposal that emphasizes the atmosphere.
Proposals at planetariums are generally reserved.
You can propose to her without worrying about what others think, so you should be able to express your feelings for her to the fullest.

Hotel

If you want to make a rich proposal, it is recommended to propose at a luxury hotel where you do not usually have the opportunity to go.
You can propose at a hotel restaurant or chapel, or you can propose in your room.
If you are going to propose in a hotel room, it is recommended to ask room service to bring champagne and other gifts for the proposal along with them, or ask them to decorate the room and set up the gifts in advance.

Summary

A proposal is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
To ensure success, why don’t you try talking to people around you once?

For those who say, “I want to make a surprise, so I can’t talk to people around me,” or “I don’t have anyone close to me who I can talk to about a proposal,” we recommend consulting with a proposal planner or a proposal concierge.

How to Propose accepts consultations for proposal plans online.
By the day of the proposal, we will arrange a proposal place such as a hotel or restaurant, and create a time schedule for the day, so we can help you proceed with the proposal more smoothly.
If you are considering a proposal, please contact How to Propose.

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Yuka Katayama