“I want my proposal to succeed.”
“I want to know how to prevent my proposal from failing.”

For a once-in-a-lifetime proposal, it would be nice to get a heartfelt “yes” from the other party.
So, in this article, I will show you how to prepare for a successful proposal.
I will also explain the tips to avoid failure, so please refer to it.

 

How to propose successfully?

What are some ways to make a proposal successful?
For example, the relationship with the other party so far, the financial situation, the relationship with the other party’s family, etc. may be involved in the success of the proposal.

However, if you’re going to focus on increasing the success rate of your proposal now, it’s important how much you stick to “preparation.”
So, below, we will introduce the detailed flow of preparation for the proposal.

1. Decide when to propose

Decide on a date to propose.
Popular dates for proposing are the anniversary of when the couple started dating and each other’s birthdays.
It is also popular at times such as Christmas.
If you propose on such an anniversary, of course, the day will be even more special.

Also, it is recommended to propose on a day when nothing happens.
By doing so, a previously unremarkable day becomes a special proposal anniversary.

If you’re having trouble deciding when to propose, you can also choose to avoid dates that aren’t appropriate for a proposal.
For more information on the timing of the proposal, please refer to the article below.

When is the right time to propose? Introducing recommended times and advance preparations!

2．Decide on a plan for the day

Next, decide on a plan for the day of the proposal.
The first thing to think about when deciding on a plan is the “concept”.
Proposals with various concepts can be considered, such as romantic proposals that are the royal road, casual proposals, and grand proposals involving friends and family.
Think carefully about a concept that your partner will love.
Once the concept has been decided, we will come up with a plan that goes along with it.

Recommended plan for proposal

For example, if you want a romantic proposal, you can propose at a restaurant or hotel, and if you want a casual proposal, you can propose at a drive or at home.

If you are going to propose at a restaurant, consider a specific plan, such as asking for a course meal and having dessert and a proposal gift delivered along the way.
Please refer to the details below for planning details.

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3．Decide where to propose

Once the plan is decided, the next step is to decide on the location.
If you’re going to propose at a restaurant, think about which restaurant you’d like to propose to and make a reservation.
There are various ways to choose, such as a restaurant that is more luxurious than the place you usually go, a restaurant that you both have memories of, and a special restaurant that feels extraordinary.
If possible, it would be good to visit the site and conduct a preliminary inspection before making a decision.

Recommended places and situations for proposals

Places with beautiful night views and restaurants are popular places to propose.
It would be nice to go on a trip together and propose at the destination.
Proposals at home have also become popular in recent years.

Whatever location you choose, it’s better to propose in a quiet place than in a noisy place.
In a noisy place, you may not be able to hear the important words of the proposal, or it may be difficult to talk to the other person.
It is also important to look at the distance between tables at the preliminary inspection stage.
See here for more information on choosing a location.

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4. Choose a gift

Once you have decided on the date, time, plan, and location, the next thing you need is a gift.
It is common to present an engagement ring to the proposal, but even if you do not give a ring, prepare a gift such as a bouquet.
The satisfaction of the proposal changes depending on the presence or absence of a present.

Tips for giving a ring

When giving a ring as a gift, first you have to know the ring finger size of the recipient.
If it is difficult to actually measure or listen to the other person’s finger, it is a good idea to write down the size and diameter of the ring that the other person usually wears.

Also, even if you say a ring in a bite, there are various designs and brands.
Find out which design you like so that the other person will wear it for a long time.

Recommended gifts for proposals without rings

If you don’t want to give a ring as a present, it is recommended to give a gift such as a bouquet, a letter, or a balloon.
Bouquets are especially suitable for proposal gifts.
Why don’t you choose flowers such as roses and gerberas that can convey your feelings to the other person and give them to the other person?

You can also think of other gifts such as stuffed animals and music boxes.
If you find a gift that your partner will love, hide it according to your proposal plan or leave it with the staff so that you can give it to your partner smoothly on the day.

5. Think about the words of the proposal

Proposal is also important what words to convey to the other party.
Think about the words of the proposal in advance so that you don’t rush on the day.

In terms of standard words, “Please get married”, “Please stay with me forever”, “Let’s become a family”, etc.
Even if you don’t use these words, it’s important to be able to communicate straight to the other party in simple words as much as possible.

How not to fail on the day of the proposal

Finally, here are three points you should keep in mind so that your proposal does not fail.

Wear clean clothes

It is also important what kind of clothes you want to propose.
Some restaurants and hotels have dress codes, so be sure to dress accordingly.
Whether you are going on a drive date or proposing at home, you can create the atmosphere of a proposal just by wearing clothes with a collar or a necktie that is a little more fashionable than usual.
Although there are appropriate clothes for different situations, clean clothes are important.

Consider how you will give the gift

Consider the timing and method of giving gifts so that you can give them smoothly on the day.
Basically, it is recommended to hand over the present immediately after conveying the words of the proposal.

If you want to give a ring, get down on your knees and open the box.

Reconfirm the timing of the proposal

As an example of a failed proposal, there are many cases where the person is too nervous and loses the timing to convey the words of the proposal to the other party.
In order to avoid these mistakes, it is important to make sure that you know exactly when to propose to your partner.

If you’re at a hotel, it’s recommended that you go back to your room after dinner.

Summary

Thorough preparation is the key to a successful proposal.
Instead of haphazardly conveying your feelings to the other person, prepare well and make sure that the proposal conveys your seriousness.

If you are unsure about how to propose, please contact How to Propose, which has been involved in more than 60,000 proposals so far.

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